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Saying Yes Opens Endless Creativity—Tossing Turns Yes into Yes, And…
OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 31 OF 31 How much of your relating revolves around defending, jockeying for who’s right this time, scorekeeping and tucking away tidbits you can use against your partner when you feel cornered? If your honest answer is anything more than “zero time,” the Yes…

Quantum Shift Alert–You Can Osmose Love
OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 30 OF 31 Here’s one of the most pervasive myths about relationships—it’s just plain constant work and compromise. You could just let go of that obsolete notion. We’ve noticed, especially in recent years, that people open to learning can just GET IT, right now,…

Harmony Happens When Separate Tones Play Together
OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 29 OF 31 If you think that you have to establish a Gregorian chant kind of relationship where you both adhere to one melody line of opinions about what’s right—and serious--we have good news for you. Two full voices can create endless harmonies. If…

To Have a Great Time All the Time, Play with Your Personas
OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 28 OF 31 Everybody has personas, roles we still carry. We all learned to wear different roles just as we learned to wear different clothes and change expressions when certain people were around. You bring a whole circus of personas to your relationships. The…

To Experience Heaven Right Now, Live in Completion
OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 27 OF 31 We savor the joy of giving and receiving more love in more ways every day. We treat each interaction as if it might be our last. We communicate feelings, thoughts and requests either in the moment or as soon as we…

All Feelings are Flow
OUR BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP WOWS OVER 40 YEARS OF MARRIAGE – PART 26 OF 31 Wherever we travel in the world to share relationship explorations, people seem most interested, confused and befuddled by feelings. We even had a man specifically come for coaching to get us to perform a feeling-ectomy on his wife. He was convinced…